there needs to be an option for a mediator with every marriage. like when you get your marriage license from the courthouse there should be a questionnaire with the specific question: “Do you want a mediator?”
This person would be in your house all the time and present for all disagreements/discussions.
Unbiased and preferably asexual.
It’s times like this when I’m glad I’m alone. No one or nothing else to blame my problems and shortcomings on but me and me alone. If something fucked up around here.. It’s because I neglected it. No one’s fault but my own. How come others have such a problem owning up to mistakes and fuck ups?